How To Make Good Impression on a First Date
They say you only have one chance to make a first impression. While it may sound harsh, it’s true. The first time someone meets you, even sees you, all kinds of judgment is taking place. It is important to try and take advantage of the first meeting with someone, by making sure you put your absolute best foot forward. First dates can bring about especially high levels of anxiety because of the simple fact that there will be all kinds of sizing up going on. Lower your anxiety and raise your chances of making a stellar first impression by following these steps. Whether you’re divorced and getting back into the dating game or you’re a forever bachelor, you never know when you’re about to go on your final first date. Here are some tips from the professionals at California Escort Services.
Look Good
Taking care of yourself shows that you have the capability to take care of someone else. Get a great haircut. If you don’t already have a hairstylist, get one, and visit them on a regular basis. It is so nice to have someone that knows how to keep you looking fresh and clean cut. Dress to impress. Make sure your clothes are steamed and pressed and that you’re dressed for the occasion. Get your car washed and detailed. Hit the gym or the trail on a regular basis. While these things on their own may seem small and trivial, all of them together add up to a man who takes the time to care for himself and in turn, shows a woman he can take care of her.
Plan Well
Once you have the time and date secured, take the time to plan the date. There’s nothing worse than having the “where do you want to eat?” “I don’t know, where do you want to eat?” conversation on a first date. Chances are you asked her out, so the planning is on you. If there’s a hot new restaurant in town, call ahead for a reservation. Plan to stop at a scenic spot on the way to dinner for a cocktail. Pick her up, or send a car for her, so she doesn’t have to worry about driving to an unfamiliar place or dealing with parking. Having the details set shows confidence on your part and allows more time to just focus on fun and conversation during the date.
Don’t Just Talk, Listen
It is easy for most guys to talk about themselves, but don’t dominate the conversation. Make sure you ask questions and then listen to the answers. There’s no better way to get to know someone, find out if there are things you have in common, and test out the chemistry, than through conversation. If the conversation flows easily and you can make each other laugh, it will be a great ice breaker and is also a sign of more good things to come.
Pick Up the Check
No matter what feminist notions you may have heard, there is no question that a woman has a primal instinct to be protected and taken care of. She is feeling this out from the moment she meets you, whether she realizes it or not. If the check comes, and you hesitate, she may feel obligated to offer to split the check and things will get awkward. There is plenty of time in a relationship to get to the point where finances start to be intertwined, but it shouldn’t be happening on a first date. Grab and pay the check. Be assertive and don’t waver in your actions. It’s amazing what a strong message such a small act can send.
If You Like Her, Tell Her!
No need to play games when you meet a woman that you really find attractive and have chemistry with. Expecting her to follow up, or waiting forever to ask her out again, is just wasting time you could be spending together. After all the time and effort you put into making an amazing first impression, keep the momentum going. If you’re interested, let it be known. Tell her she’s beautiful. Call and ask her out again. Keep in touch through text. Be assertive. Men don’t get the women they want by sitting on the sidelines.
If the Date Fails, Don’t Worry
It can be stressful to put yourself out there, but it’s the only way to meet someone. Your great first impression may be lost on the fact that there just isn’t any chemistry, or maybe she just isn’t what you’re looking for. Don’t dwell on it. Just keep taking good care of yourself, working hard and taking risks. Eventually, you’ll end up on an epic first date and you can be confident that you’re making an excellent first impression.
